Marie, this one goes out to you! And to little Hugo, of course.
I want to know what you do when someone else’s kid gets hurt on your watch. That’s right, me. The clumsy one, the one with tattered insurance cards, the one to whom nurses wave at the local ER.
Has another person’s child been hurt on your watch? How did you feel, and how did the other parent react? Join the Momversation by commenting in a related forum:
Your child walked at 5 months? Great! He said his first word when he was barely out of the womb? Super!
What do you think? Is it important to push your children to reach developmental milestones? Or should we all just take a giant chill pill? Join the Momversation by commenting on a related forum:
What do you think? Should your children be privy to the round-the-clock coverage tragedies such as the tsunami, 9/11, and the Haiti earthquake inspire? Or do you have a don’t ask, don’t tell policy? Join the Momversation by commenting in a related forum:
How’s your hoo-hah? Your twinkie? Your flower? How’s your… vagina? Yep, doesn’t quite have the same “cutesy” ring to it. And that’s just fine with Daphne Brogdon of Cool Mom who is not a fan for precious nicknames for private parts (is private part a cutesy nickname?), especially when used by moms. Do these nicknames annoy you, and do you think kids should be taught them? Sound off!
Do you use cutesy names for private parts? Do you use them in general or just with your kids? Share them, and join the Momversation by commenting in a related forum:
See! Momversation.com editors dig up a photo of me from a year ago to show how much weight I’ve dropped! See! Me cringing! See! Me unable to add to three!
What you gonna do with all that junk? You know… all that junk inside your trunk? If you’re in the market to lose a couple of extra pounds (or more), then you have to do it healthfully. And a few tips from your Momversation panelists couldn’t hurt. It’s a new year and a new you, so if you want to get in shape, check out what our mom bloggers have to say. Rebecca Woolf of Girl’s Gone Child asks, “What are your best weight loss tips?”
Do you have any tips for healthful eating? Do you find it difficult to lose weight? Join the Momversation by commenting on one of our related forums:
Doing Internet TV with Momversation.com has been, hands down, the most exciting project I’ve worked on in my seven—almost eight—years of doing this. It’s my favorite community, and I get to work with the most astounding people every single week. Some days, it’s literally what gets me out of bed (and looking good from the shoulders up). Happy Birthday, everyone, it’s been a great year. And I signed my new contract, so I can say the madness will continue!
Yep, last November 3rd, we launched our site with our very first Momversation episode, “I Love You, But I Hate Your Politics.”
Ah, we were all so young then, weren’t we?
Since our debut, we’ve had a load of awesome things happen! We were nominated for a Webby. Our panelists appeared on CNN and Oprah. Even Regis was talking about Momversation! Senator Gillibrand answered your questions about health care reform. Host Nancy O’Dell joined us for a discussion about birth plans. And poker player extraordinaire Annie Duke talked homework. And there were about 150 episodes created!
Thanks to our panelists, guest panelists, guest bloggers, and most of all, you, our community! We’re so glad you are enjoying the Momversation. Keep giving us your suggestions, and share your memories. Our Momversation is your Momversation!
As of tonight, I’m back at about 78% capacity, so let’s talk about depression. Why not? I’m sure I wouldn’t feel great about it were I at full capacity, but ten days of swine flu has done a number on me. In that way the latest episode of Momversation.com, Overcoming Depression, is well-timed: I just don’t have the will to worry about what people think.
It was interesting to watch how this episode was cut. We all talked at length on the raw footage. I think I went on for days. It’s the kind of subject that once you’ve opened it for discussion, it is hard to turn off the spigot. Literally, in my case.
I am very grateful to Danny Evans for leading this one, and of course to Heather Armstrong and Alice Bradley, too, for being so open about their depression and giving us hope that it’s possible to get through to the other side, and perhaps even thrive. Or at least tap-dance because, hey, the kids need feeding and raising and loving, and don’t need to see that movie quite yet. I do hope someday, when they are older, they are able to hear about it, understand it, and come to accept it because we’ve taught them compassion and empathy along with the alphabet and how to put a tape in the VCR.
You’ve heard of the phrase, “depression hurts?” It’s true. Beyond emotional symptoms such as guilt, hopelessness, and irritability, depression also has physical symptoms, such as chronic aches, fatigue, and insomnia. It’s not something one can just “get over.” It is an illness that can affect every member of a family. That’s why when depression hurts a person, she need understanding and treatment, not judgment. Guest Danny Evans of Dad Gone Mad and author of Rage Against the Meshugenah joins Heather Armstrong of Dooce in asking, “How do you overcome depression?”
Have you had episodes of chronic or postpartum depression? How did you handle it? What’s your advice for moms and dads going through the illness? Join the Momversation by commenting in one of our related forums:
I’m floored with another! fifth disease! flare-up! and all three of the kids are home sick with various and sundry illnesses. Gooooooo Roberts! I actually took one to school, only to have him call from the office at ten past nine for me to come back and pick him up. Me? Oh, well, let’s see: arms and legs in agony, extremely tired, swollen feet and ankles, fuzzy cognition (shut up). When I put it all together this morning I suddenly realized why my abdomen has been hurting for three days. It’s just been a while since the last flare-up, and eight months since the first. Yep, nothing like childhood diseases in an over-forty body. Comedy gold!
More evidence of impaired cognition and ability to function: I just realized that FOUR Momversation videos have posted since I last updated my episodes, and they are good ones. Some funny, some not so much. And the one I’m to record today on overcoming depression should be an all-out scream fest. What happens when you don’t feel up to talking about depression? Do you just stare into the camera? Put on The Cure in the background?
Did You Take Your Husband’s Name?
Kids and Gun Play: Good or Bad?
Funny Wedding Day Stories (I’m in this one. Oh, yes, I am.)
Dealing with a Miscarriage (Didn’t appear in this one but am all over the subject in the comments.)
Talking to Your Kids About Race (Today’s episode.)
If you need me, I’ll be… not answering email. You might catch me by phone, because the ringing drives me up a wall. Carry on.
Of course, not, children, Mummy owes all her remaining marbles to each of you equally.
Check out the article by Cookie Magazine about playing favorites, which helped to inspire this episode.
Do you find yourself playing favorites with your children? Would your kids say you have a favorite child? Join the Momversation by commenting on one of our related forums:
Just imagine three MiniMes running around my house. Or three MiniHims. God in his infinite wisdom cut us a break and threw a little of both into each of our children so that we’re constantly discovering, admiring, or shaking our heads over this basket of genes we’ve been given to nurture. Either that or he’s enjoying the gag reel.
Who are your children most like? Are your children very different from you or very much alike? And how has your child changed over the years? Check out our related forums:
In which I say “boob” approximately 486432 times.
Do you have any weaning tips? Did you find it easy or difficult? And are you a Boob MacGyver? Watch the video to find out, and join the Momversation by commenting in one of our related forums:
BECAUSE THEY JUST SHOULD. I’m a walking poster child of what is wrong with the healthcare system. I’m losing coverage on the first, because TWICE the company that had my COBRA coverage folded and *poof* the COBRA ends when the company ceases to exist. As in, two weeks notice that you’ll be ass to the breeze quicker than you can conceive and confirm a pregnancy.
Oh, speaking of that, I was just turned down (again) by Anthem because I had at one time, among other things, had infertility treatment. I applied for a policy that didn’t include maternity. Jesus wept.
Anyway, on with the episode.
Senator Kirsten Gillibrand (D-New York) leads the discussion on healthcare reform in today’s Momversation.
Does healthcare concern you? Are you for or against the plan currently in Congress? Do you have questions for the Senator? Write your questions in the comments, and the Senator will answer them starting Tuesday! And check out the Senator’s position on healthcare and “Reality Check” on the White House Web site. Start joining the Momversation by commenting in our related forums:
I had about as much participation in this episode as I did in teaching my children to swim!
*finger, thumb, L, forehead*
Sarah Burns of The Ohana Mama joins the panelists as Karen Walrond of Chookooloonks asks, “How do you get your kids to swim?”
Was it hard to get your kids swimming? Are they afraid of the water? Are you afraid that swimming isn’t safe? View our blog posts about swimming and speak out in our forums:
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